Why does communication tend to break down in many relationships?  Is it because people need to be taught how to communicate better?  That doesn’t match up with the fact that most people can communicate just fine in the beginning of their relationship.  In the following videos, Dr. Kaye explains some of the science of how emotional dysregulation can kill our communication from below consciousness.

Here are some relationship truths your mother never told you.

Dr. Kaye explains the brain changes that make us stupid when we fight.

Here are some tips for what to do to manage conflict.

Here are some things you can do to grow more control of your anger.

Useful tips for selecting a new partner with character

Dr. Kaye is interviewed on WRAL-TV about his book