Becky from Vidor, Texas About Living With His Parents (Q & A)

Dr. Bryce Kaye gives advice to a wife and husband living with his parents.Q:  MY HUSBAND AND I HAVEN’T EXACTLY BEEN THE “HAPPY MARRIED COUPLE” LATELY. WE’VE BEEN MARRIED FOR A YEAR AND 2 MONTHS. WE SOLD OUR HOUSE IN AUSTIN AND RELOCATED TO VIDOR. WE DECIDED TOGETHER TO BUILD A HOME ON THE OTHER SIDE OF HIS PARENTS LAND. WE ARE LIVING WITH HIS PARENTS NOW AND I BELIEVE IT HAS PUT A MAJOR STRAIN ON OUR MARRIAGE. HE WILL TALK TO ME IN WAYS AS IF I’M A DOG AND I DON’T LIKE IT. EVERY TIME I CONFRONT HIM WITH MY FEELINGS , HE SAYS I CAN LEAVE. BUT I DON’T WANT TO BECAUSE WE HAVE 2 KIDS AND I LOVE HIM WITH ALL MY HEART AND SOUL. WHAT CAN I DO TO MAKE IT BETTER?

A:  Becky.  From what you have said, there is not enough information for me to give you an intelligent direction.  The only thing that occurs to me  is to try to negotiate a way to live in some other temporary housing.   Living in the in-laws house is often a very severe stressor that causes squirrely dynamics in a marriage. It will often put the son or daughter in a more regressed emotional state. – Bryce Kaye

For information about Helen and Bryce’s Love Odyssey marriage retreats visit http://www.odysseymarriageretreats.com  where the strategy behind these couples retreats  is described in detail.

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