Tonya from Columbus, Ohio (Q & A)

Q: I’VE BEEN MARRIED FOR A YEAR BUT I HAVE BEEN WITH MY HUSBAND FOR 10 YEARS.  FOR THE LAST 6 MONTHS ALL HE WANTS TO DO IS THROW  UP MY PAST FROM BEFORE WE WERE  REALLY IN A RELATIONSHIP. I HAVE FORGIVEN HIM FOR THE THINGS HE HAS DONE SINCE WE HAVE BEEN TOGETHER.  WHY CANT HE? THE OTHER PROBLEM IS ALL HE WANTS TO DO IS BLAME ME FOR EVERYTHING HE DOES. I LOVE HIM BUT I’M TIRED OF IT. THEN HE WONDERS WHY I’M SO MOODY ALL THE TIME. HE’S A LOT OLDER THAN ME. I STAY HOME WITH THE KIDS WHILE HE GETS OUT AND AWAY FOR AWHILE BUT IF I WANT TO GET OUT FOR A WHILE HE MAKES ME FEEL BAD ABOUT IT SO I SAY HOME. THE ONLY TIME I GET TO MYSELF IS WHEN I’M AT WORK. WHAT SHOULD I DO?

A: Tonya.  Your questions are too general for any better answer than this: Assert yourself the best you know how and it would be especially good for you to get into a woman’s support group.  – Bryce Kaye

For information about Helen and Bryce’s Love Odyssey marriage retreats visit http://www.odysseymarriageretreats.com  where the strategy behind these couples retreats  is described in detail.

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